...So take it or leave it, infidelity is wrong. If you are a man please do unto your wife what you want her to do unto you. If you will be happy when your wife cheats on you, then please by all means do the same!
Like you, your wife is human, with feelings. If she stays faithful to you, it's not because she can't cheat on you but its simply because she chose not to cheat on you. You can do same and choose not to cheat on your wife. Stop hiding under the farce of being 'wired to cheat' because you can 'chose' not to cheat no matter how high your libido may be.
Someone said there are three kinds of men: the one who loves to cheat on his wife for his own reasons, the only who hates cheating but can't stop and the one who cannot cheat on his wife. Man has no excuse for cheating. Let him recognize it as a problem and get help for the sake of himself, his wife and his children.
When we stop making excuses for our wrongs, only then are we more likely to find a solution.
Cheating is purely human nature incited by lust. But when a man truly fears God and applies self control, he is able to bring lust to subjection. He becomes in control of his body, not his body being in control of him. What does it take to stop cheating? When we are crucified with Christ, sin loses its power in our lives (Rom 6:6).
So, dear men, treat your wife the way you want to be treated if you were in her shoes. A word is enough for the wise. Do the right thing.
Like you, your wife is human, with feelings. If she stays faithful to you, it's not because she can't cheat on you but its simply because she chose not to cheat on you. You can do same and choose not to cheat on your wife. Stop hiding under the farce of being 'wired to cheat' because you can 'chose' not to cheat no matter how high your libido may be.
Someone said there are three kinds of men: the one who loves to cheat on his wife for his own reasons, the only who hates cheating but can't stop and the one who cannot cheat on his wife. Man has no excuse for cheating. Let him recognize it as a problem and get help for the sake of himself, his wife and his children.
When we stop making excuses for our wrongs, only then are we more likely to find a solution.
Cheating is purely human nature incited by lust. But when a man truly fears God and applies self control, he is able to bring lust to subjection. He becomes in control of his body, not his body being in control of him. What does it take to stop cheating? When we are crucified with Christ, sin loses its power in our lives (Rom 6:6).
So, dear men, treat your wife the way you want to be treated if you were in her shoes. A word is enough for the wise. Do the right thing.
Every word here is very true
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