Writing to a relationship counselor Deidre, woman says she was the one who introduced porn into her relationship and now her partner can’t get an erection unless he’s watching transvestite sex.
We have been together for four years. He is 35 and I am 30. Over the years I have caught him emailing cross-dressers. He says he has never cheated but he’s sent explicit pictures of himself and received them.
He swears he is not gay and sees them as women, not guys.
I try to understand and do stuff he wants, such as bondage. I suggested watching porn to boost our sex life but last time we made love he actually watched a porn video.
I now feel ugly and unattractive to him.
*Why I shared this is because often times, a whole lot of couples, even Christian couples, make the mistake of introducing porn as a means of spicing up in the bedroom and end up destroying what is left of their marriage.
Porn can never and will never spice up your sex life. How can you rely on what is demonic to build up your marriage? A time comes when you are so dependent on porn that you can't be turned on without watching porn or imagining it your head. Porn enslaves. Remember you become what you feed on; what you are exposed to. There is nothing good about porn. It's impossible to find good in evil.
I plead with you dear Christian not to allow the devil creep into your marriage through pornography. Please read this article I shared sometime back: You think watching porn is a harmless fun...? It will open your eyes to the spiritual side of porn.
"God is light...and there's no trace of darkness in Him."
We have been together for four years. He is 35 and I am 30. Over the years I have caught him emailing cross-dressers. He says he has never cheated but he’s sent explicit pictures of himself and received them.
He swears he is not gay and sees them as women, not guys.
I try to understand and do stuff he wants, such as bondage. I suggested watching porn to boost our sex life but last time we made love he actually watched a porn video.
I now feel ugly and unattractive to him.
*Why I shared this is because often times, a whole lot of couples, even Christian couples, make the mistake of introducing porn as a means of spicing up in the bedroom and end up destroying what is left of their marriage.
Porn can never and will never spice up your sex life. How can you rely on what is demonic to build up your marriage? A time comes when you are so dependent on porn that you can't be turned on without watching porn or imagining it your head. Porn enslaves. Remember you become what you feed on; what you are exposed to. There is nothing good about porn. It's impossible to find good in evil.
I plead with you dear Christian not to allow the devil creep into your marriage through pornography. Please read this article I shared sometime back: You think watching porn is a harmless fun...? It will open your eyes to the spiritual side of porn.
"God is light...and there's no trace of darkness in Him."
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