He Only Touches Her When He Wants S*x....

If you want to win your wife’s heart and keep her satisfied at all times give her three basic things: attention, companionship and good s*x. Exactly! Every other thing can follow. I speak from a woman’s point of view. Women, unlike what some of you guys think, are so simple to deal with. Yes I know that sometimes we have our ‘moments’ but it’s not a big deal…lol. We can still so easily be appeased.
Years ago, a woman put to bed and for the first few weeks after child birth, her husband did not as much as touch her or even cuddle her in bed. How she longed for his warm embrace, a caress, a kiss, anything to remind her that he loves her and is in this with her, but nothing happened. The man simply kept a safe distance. He failed to recognize that his wife needed his attention and companionship. Her emotions failed her and she became depressed. One day she just could not take it anymore so she wailed out her frustration to her husby, “ I’m tired! I’m tired!”. The poor guy was so exasperated, wondering what he must have done this time. I think that most men like this man must assume that touching his wife, caressing her, cuddling her must always lead to sex. No, not for the woman. Not everything is about sex. To the woman, it is also a sensual way of communicating what you feel for her and she just loves it. It makes her heart warm and light. It lets her know you are still physically attracted to her.

Dear married men, please show your woman more affection. It can come in simple words like I love you, you are beautiful, thank God I married you, you are the best thing that has ever happened to me. Say it and mean it. Don’t distance yourself, she wants to feel you, savor your companionship, your being there for her. She just wants to know that you love being with her not just because of the sexual pleasures but because you love her totally in every way and enjoy her company. It makes her feel special, like the queen of your heart.
Even in sex, she still wants to know you love her, her body and that you enjoy being with her that way. Not the whambangthankyou kind of sex that leaves her emotionally drained and used like she means nothing to you but a sex toy. And when a woman is emotionally drained, she can’t give her best in bed. Uh huh! That’s true.
I say it again, women are easy to woo when you spoil them with these things. You will completely steal her heart. It’s not even about the money. It’s about those 3 things and they don’t cost a dime. Let the your love for your wife propel you and you won’t regret your being married to her. What you pour into your wife is what she will pour out on you in return. Pour in affection, and she will pour out her love on you and treat you like a king!