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'A Ugandan lady proposes to her much older boyfriend' . My first thought when I read that was, "This is an anomaly."

Men are abandoning their position as the wooers and women are taking over. While some men just want to play, their women want something more lasting than the girlfriend title. They get tired of waiting for oga to propose, so they ask the "will you marry me" question themselves. 

Sincerely I wonder what that relationship from onwards will be like. Will the woman be in charge of the wedding plans? Will she be the one to pay the man's dowry? Will the man take the woman's love for granted? Cos I believe for a woman to come to the point of proposing to her man, it's two things : she must really be in love with him or she is desperate. And if a man is not man enough to propose to the woman, it's either he is not ready or he doesn't really love the woman so much as to make her his wife. What you love, you want to keep permanently, right? Is the woman not boxing him into a corner by proposing to him in public and to save her face, says yes so as not to embarrass her? Thoughts thoughts thoughts on the sensibility of all this. 

The way God created the order of things, men are the ones who woo, who pursue, who propose. They go out, choose the woman they want to start a family with. It's not the other way round. But the society today have changed that, it doesn't matter anymore. Women proposing to men? I really believe it's an anomaly. The same way a woman is the head of a home and not the man. It's not normal. 

But why? Why won't a man propose to a woman he has been with for  months, for years? Why? If you really want to keep that woman in your life, what's holding you down from proposing? 

A man who wants you will keep you. He doesn't need years to make up his mind. He already knows what he wants when he sees it. If he had not popped the question, he probably is assessing other possible options. Place a value on yourself dear girl and let the man be the man.
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