In Zimbabawe, man refused to have sex with his wife after he discovered that she is a habitual bed wetter. His discovery started in the hotel during their honeymoon in Victoria falls. The hotel charged them for the damages the wife, Primrose Sakupwanya, had caused the blanket and the sheet, leaving them so embarrassed.
After the hotel incidence, she promised her husband,Takesure Banda, that her condition was under control, but he discovered she constantly wets the bed every night and it made him miserable.
They have spent over $7000 to treat her ailment but so far everything has failed. Sakupwanya said that they now sleep in separate beds, and her husband refuses to have sex with her as she has a bad odor from the urine. Banda said that he feels deceived as his wife did not inform him of her bed-wetting before they got married. However, divorce is against his Christian beliefs.
*Honesty/openness/sincerity is a very vital part in a relationship. Some women can be so desperate to get married and they hide certain things, eg a medical condition, that may implicate their marriage from their prospective spouse. At the end of the day after getting married, the man feels deceived because the lady had failed to open up and confide in him. Definitely such union will lack trust and all the bliss of married life. In some cases, the man wants out. So why not be real ladies (and guys)? Tell him and allow him decide whether to stay or not. It could even be a litmus test to what he really feels about you. A man who loves you just the way you are will definitely stay through thick and thin with you. Don't enter marriage in desperation only to start suffering in it few minutes after the wedding. It's not worth it. Save yourself the heart ache. Also remember how special you are irrespective of what secret condition you may have. Don't cling to a man who doesn't love you for who you are just because you are eager to get hooked up.
After the hotel incidence, she promised her husband,Takesure Banda, that her condition was under control, but he discovered she constantly wets the bed every night and it made him miserable.
They have spent over $7000 to treat her ailment but so far everything has failed. Sakupwanya said that they now sleep in separate beds, and her husband refuses to have sex with her as she has a bad odor from the urine. Banda said that he feels deceived as his wife did not inform him of her bed-wetting before they got married. However, divorce is against his Christian beliefs.
*Honesty/openness/sincerity is a very vital part in a relationship. Some women can be so desperate to get married and they hide certain things, eg a medical condition, that may implicate their marriage from their prospective spouse. At the end of the day after getting married, the man feels deceived because the lady had failed to open up and confide in him. Definitely such union will lack trust and all the bliss of married life. In some cases, the man wants out. So why not be real ladies (and guys)? Tell him and allow him decide whether to stay or not. It could even be a litmus test to what he really feels about you. A man who loves you just the way you are will definitely stay through thick and thin with you. Don't enter marriage in desperation only to start suffering in it few minutes after the wedding. It's not worth it. Save yourself the heart ache. Also remember how special you are irrespective of what secret condition you may have. Don't cling to a man who doesn't love you for who you are just because you are eager to get hooked up.
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