Who in his right senses will want to be addicted to something so destructive? But most times nobody sets out to get addicted to porn. It’s something that happens without the person even knowing it. You find yourself going back for more even when you know it’s wrong or you are disgusted with it. And each time you do, you get plunged deeper and deeper into the claws of pornography so much so that you become dependent on it. A day without porn becomes near impossible. It becomes the centre of your thoughts and actions. Even your spouse can’t turn you on except you watch porn. Yes. It becomes that bad.
Sinking deeper into this addiction starts with exposure. Just one visit may make you go back for more . With easy accessibility of porn on the internet and on the mobile phones, exposure to porn can occur at an early age (Little wonder when some men become serial cheaters).
It’s only a matter of time before it becomes a habit. You become hooked or should I say, addicted. You just keep going back even when you don’t want to.
After a while your thirst for porn escalates. You look for more and more graphic porn. Soft porn becomes like a child’s play. You want to graduate to hardcore pornography which would have disgusted you when you started but now excites you.
With time your emotions are numbed that even the most graphic porn doesn’t excite you again. You lose the thrill you usually derive when viewing porn.
Finally, you start acting out sexually. They move from the virtual porn world to the real world. You want to live out what you actually see in porn videos (which most times are all lies and unattainable in real life). Porn twists your mentality and makes you see your spouse as an ‘object’ of sexual gratification and nudge you into having multiple sex partners in a bid to act out your fantasies.
It’s only a matter of time before it becomes a habit. You become hooked or should I say, addicted. You just keep going back even when you don’t want to.
After a while your thirst for porn escalates. You look for more and more graphic porn. Soft porn becomes like a child’s play. You want to graduate to hardcore pornography which would have disgusted you when you started but now excites you.
With time your emotions are numbed that even the most graphic porn doesn’t excite you again. You lose the thrill you usually derive when viewing porn.
Finally, you start acting out sexually. They move from the virtual porn world to the real world. You want to live out what you actually see in porn videos (which most times are all lies and unattainable in real life). Porn twists your mentality and makes you see your spouse as an ‘object’ of sexual gratification and nudge you into having multiple sex partners in a bid to act out your fantasies.
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