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"What is a Christian couple allowed to do in sex?", someone asks

Sometime ago I posted an article on what do think about oral and anal sex? Some people are of the school of thought that for married couples there should be no restrictions in the bedroom and some people think otherwise. A pretty controversial topic. 

Now check out this answer given in Got Questions website concerning the matter. Here it is:

The Bible says that “Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral" (Hebrews 13:4).

 Scripture never says what a husband and wife are or are not allowed to do sexually. Husbands and wives are instructed, “Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time (1 Corinthians 7:5a). This verse perhaps lays down the principle for sexual relations in marriage.

 Whatever is done, it should be mutually agreed upon. No one should be encouraged or coerced to do something he or she is uncomfortable with or thinks is wrong. If a husband and wife both agree that they want to try something (e.g., oral sex, different positions, sex toys, etc.), then the Bible does not give any reason why they cannot.

There are a few things, though, that are never allowable sexually for a married couple. The practice of “swapping,” or "swinging/swingers," or “bringing in an extra” (threesomes, foursomes, etc.) is blatant adultery (Galatians 5:19; Ephesians 5:3; Colossians 3:5; 1 Thessalonians 4:3). 


Adultery is sin even if your spouse allows, approves, or even participates in it. Pornography appeals to the “lust of the flesh and the lust of the eyes” (1 John 2:16) and is therefore condemned by God as well. A husband and wife should never bring pornography into their sexual union. 

Other than these two items, there is nothing that Scripture explicitly forbids a husband and wife to do with each other as long as it is by mutual consent.
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  1. Huh??? Oral sex? Mitchelle? God created the dick to go with the woman's vagina, and you are here encouraging using the mouth down there? What then is the meaning of perversion??? Smh.

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    1. Lol. Sweetheart, I only published a culled article that I found interesting. This doesn't mean I am for or against it.

      If u noticed I didn't use my red pen which I make use of when I want to state my stance concerning a matter.

      This topic is a very controversial in d body of Christ (Rom 14). Some people believe it is permissible once it's within d confines of marriage, others say it's wrong.

      So it's a personal decision that we hav to allow God lead us make. If our desire is to please God in everything , d Holy Spirit will surely lead us to make d right decisions.

      Hope am cleared dearie? God bless u.



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  2. Mitchelle this robot thing is killing!!! I've spent 100hrs now trying to prove I'm not a robot just to comment? Is it that you dont need people's comment and opinion here? Why not do something about this?

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    1. So sorry about this dear. I will work on it asap. God help me to sort out this thing. I personally didn't put d robot thingy there. Bear with me

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