I like being real guys, so let's get real. Lol.
Some women, when choosing their spouse from the string of suitors, use the popular statement, "Na love I go chop?" But the truth is that when you get inside marriage, you'll find that you need all the love and affection you can get for you to enjoy your marriage no matter how rich your husband is. *fact*👌
Humans naturally gravitate towards love and affection. Oh, we love that! With affection comes attention. And when you give a woman attention, it makes her feel attractive; wanted; desired.
Let me give you a small tip: One very good way to sadden your woman is to make her feel unattractive. And sure you know that you can't truly be happy when your wife is sad. A woman is the homemaker, and when the homemaker is unhappy...hmm. Little wonder the Bible says that you should love your wife like you love your body.
I know some guy will say, "Money nko, women too like money. With money in their bank account you can keep them happy for life."
Abi o! I agree with the first statement. Who doesn't like money, can I see you raise your hand ✋? Money provides security and it feels really good to know you have it but it only becomes a problem when you 'love' money. At this point it becomes unhealthy because you are willing to do anything and everything to have it.
But hey, beyond money, every woman wants to be held and be assured of her man's love; not just in his actions but in his words. She wants to hear you say, "I love you" occasionally and actually mean it. Lol.
Some women who have the privilege of being 'pumped' with money constantly don't even know anymore what it feels like to kiss their husbands, or to hug them. They no longer know what it feels like to be his queen and to have his full attention. Even love-making has become a drab. Actually, it's no longer called love-making. It's now sex - no emotions attached. Ask such women and you'll see they are willing to trade that money for just few days of their husband's attention.
Why do you think many of these women tend to look for affection outside their marriage? Because they aren't getting what they need at home, so they find it elsewhere (this isn't an excuse anyway).
Let's say that there's this male colleague that constantly pays her compliments on her new dress, new hair, beautiful looks, new perfume whereas you, her husband had not noticed, she could unconsciously gravitate towards her colleague and begin to develop 'feelings' for him. This is not the first time you will hear that women are moved by what they hear, right?
So this is a caution sign for all those men who constantly compliment a lady or are constantly chatting with her. I know, you may be doing it with the right intention but you have no idea what is brewing on her inside because of what you say to her. Some women lack love at home and you may only be setting yourself up to be the other man in her life.
A woman wants her man's companionship; to be consciously aware that he is there for her. Ultimately, every woman wants her man present with her body, soul and spirit. Imagine you and your wife lying down on the bed at the end of the day, rather than paying attention to her, you are busy pressing your phone! What! That's painful for her. She doesn't need you pressing your phone at this time. She wants to talk with you, to know how your day went, for you to ask her how she is doing, for you to listen to her, or simply 'be' with her.
A woman craves attention and affection. That's her nature, the way she was built, after all she was taken out of the man. That's what WOMAN means. She wants you to be sensitive enough to help her around the house, help her do some chores, even cook sometimes. Lol. Be genuinely concerned about her welfare and care for her. Yes, pamper her. Remember, she is the weaker sex between the two of you.
Those little, insignificant things that seem like nothing - the cuddles in bed (oh yeah, we want to be held!), spontaneous kisses and pecks, warm hugs (I don't mean that 180° 'brother and sister' kind of hug my hubby used to give me while we were still in the University. I am talking about the full frontal 360° hug that gets butterflies flying in your stomach. Lol), holding of hands, deep gazes into the eyes, those sweet words, flirty text messages and occasional 'I love you's mean a lot to a woman. She wants that. No, let me rephrase: she needs that. Make her fall in love with you again and again and again.
Give your wife your love, affection and attention but don't get obsessed by her or you'd choke her.
So, you agree?
Some women, when choosing their spouse from the string of suitors, use the popular statement, "Na love I go chop?" But the truth is that when you get inside marriage, you'll find that you need all the love and affection you can get for you to enjoy your marriage no matter how rich your husband is. *fact*👌
Humans naturally gravitate towards love and affection. Oh, we love that! With affection comes attention. And when you give a woman attention, it makes her feel attractive; wanted; desired.
Let me give you a small tip: One very good way to sadden your woman is to make her feel unattractive. And sure you know that you can't truly be happy when your wife is sad. A woman is the homemaker, and when the homemaker is unhappy...hmm. Little wonder the Bible says that you should love your wife like you love your body.
I know some guy will say, "Money nko, women too like money. With money in their bank account you can keep them happy for life."
Abi o! I agree with the first statement. Who doesn't like money, can I see you raise your hand ✋? Money provides security and it feels really good to know you have it but it only becomes a problem when you 'love' money. At this point it becomes unhealthy because you are willing to do anything and everything to have it.
But hey, beyond money, every woman wants to be held and be assured of her man's love; not just in his actions but in his words. She wants to hear you say, "I love you" occasionally and actually mean it. Lol.
Some women who have the privilege of being 'pumped' with money constantly don't even know anymore what it feels like to kiss their husbands, or to hug them. They no longer know what it feels like to be his queen and to have his full attention. Even love-making has become a drab. Actually, it's no longer called love-making. It's now sex - no emotions attached. Ask such women and you'll see they are willing to trade that money for just few days of their husband's attention.
Why do you think many of these women tend to look for affection outside their marriage? Because they aren't getting what they need at home, so they find it elsewhere (this isn't an excuse anyway).
Let's say that there's this male colleague that constantly pays her compliments on her new dress, new hair, beautiful looks, new perfume whereas you, her husband had not noticed, she could unconsciously gravitate towards her colleague and begin to develop 'feelings' for him. This is not the first time you will hear that women are moved by what they hear, right?
So this is a caution sign for all those men who constantly compliment a lady or are constantly chatting with her. I know, you may be doing it with the right intention but you have no idea what is brewing on her inside because of what you say to her. Some women lack love at home and you may only be setting yourself up to be the other man in her life.
A woman wants her man's companionship; to be consciously aware that he is there for her. Ultimately, every woman wants her man present with her body, soul and spirit. Imagine you and your wife lying down on the bed at the end of the day, rather than paying attention to her, you are busy pressing your phone! What! That's painful for her. She doesn't need you pressing your phone at this time. She wants to talk with you, to know how your day went, for you to ask her how she is doing, for you to listen to her, or simply 'be' with her.
A woman craves attention and affection. That's her nature, the way she was built, after all she was taken out of the man. That's what WOMAN means. She wants you to be sensitive enough to help her around the house, help her do some chores, even cook sometimes. Lol. Be genuinely concerned about her welfare and care for her. Yes, pamper her. Remember, she is the weaker sex between the two of you.
Those little, insignificant things that seem like nothing - the cuddles in bed (oh yeah, we want to be held!), spontaneous kisses and pecks, warm hugs (I don't mean that 180° 'brother and sister' kind of hug my hubby used to give me while we were still in the University. I am talking about the full frontal 360° hug that gets butterflies flying in your stomach. Lol), holding of hands, deep gazes into the eyes, those sweet words, flirty text messages and occasional 'I love you's mean a lot to a woman. She wants that. No, let me rephrase: she needs that. Make her fall in love with you again and again and again.
Give your wife your love, affection and attention but don't get obsessed by her or you'd choke her.
So, you agree?
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