Are you always conscious about making good impression every single time because you want people to like you or speak well of you? Lol. I have been down that road until the Holy Spirit had to point it out to me so I can deal with it. It's up to me to put off and put on, you get? In actuality, it's impossible to make everyone like you. This is actually a subconcious thing, a personality of sorts especially in people with the Melancholic temperament. But, you will see you will feel freer when you simply be you, do your thing (the right way - God's way) and have no care in the world what anyone thinks. So here goes. The only real way to be free in life is to stop caring what others think of you once and for all . You know exactly who you are. I think one of the worst things you can do to yourself is to focus on how others see you. Trust me, worrying about whether they like you or not is just a waste of time , well, for the most part. There are a few times,
Saying it as it is & uncovering the unfruitful works of darkness (Eph 5:11)