Have you ever been very sick, like really sick? I once was. Now did you notice that when you are sick nothing else mattered to you, that all you want is to get back on your feet? In fact, you will be willing to give anything just to be healthy. At this point, fun has lost its taste even sex doesn't even sound appealing anymore. To eat sef, wahala. That's when your inner eyes are opened to see how vain these things really are: sex, beauty, money, food etc. If you are wise enough, you'd realize that there is something deeper, richer, sweeter and more fulfilling than all of these things mentioned above. Seek a higher purpose. Seek God.
Saying it as it is & uncovering the unfruitful works of darkness (Eph 5:11)