Are you given to Pornography? This is what you should do...

Here are some steps you can take to become a better husband and see your marriage become one that honors both your wife and God.

• Passionately pursue God. When you get your relationship right with Him, your other relationships will fall in line.
• Become accountable to other godly men who have personally experienced porn addiction. Find a Conquer series small group or another accountability group. You need the support and encouragement these men will give you.
• Install Internet blocking protection on your computer and all your electronic devices. This is another layer of accountability.
• Go to bed when your wife does. Don't allow for time you can secretly view porn while she sleeps.
• Make your wife your priority. Show her that you value and desire time with her more than anyone or anything else.
• Take your wife on dates. Show affection. Talk openly and honestly with her.
• Don't just talk with her, make sure you listen to her. Make eye contact and focus only on her without distractions.
• Most importantly, understand and receive the fullness of God's grace for you. God tells us that if we ask for His forgiveness for our sins—and that includes our sexual sins—He will lovingly do so. Then release all the pains, failures and disappointments of your past and forgive yourself. Only you can do that. Then true healing can begin.

Restoring your marriage and rebuilding your wife's trust in you will take time. But think back to when you first fell in love with her and then spoke those vows to her. That kind of deep love and intimate union can never be found on your computer screen.
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*There is this movie series called Conquer Series. I recommend it to anyone who is having issues with pornography. Testimonies have come from watching this movie and following the instructions. Watch it prayerfully and be determined to do as it instructs. God bless you.